Mar 7, 2019
You have to be Confidently Vulnerable. Here’s the thing though, Vulnerability doesn’t have to mean childhood trauma or negativity.
Vulnerability can be about the moments, pain points, revelations, midcourse corrections, inspirations, illuminations, points of references, markers, meaning, and feelings. That’s how you create an emotional connection.
Even if you don’t have initial chemistry, you can create connecting attraction.
How?
Curiosity can turn into connection. And connection creates attraction. That doesn’t necessarily mean that it will be a romantic connection, but you will likely create an emotional connection. And an emotional connection makes them feel. And that might be your in…
If you want to make them feel for you, you have to first make them feel.
If you want to make yourself feel for them, you have to first make yourself feel.
But First, the Best way to make them feel for you, is for you to first feel, which creates a safe environment for them to feel, then you will feel for them, and then they will feel for you.
So how do you make them and you feel? It’s a strategy of storytelling- exactly what stories to tell and how to tell them.
More than Your stories, you want them to share Their stories too.
Rob and Laurel go into the strategy, and, of course, Laurel gives personal story examples so that you can see exactly how to do it yourself.